Become a Male Escort and Finally Become Financially Independent

Com’on. You’re smart, you’re funny, you’re charming, and you’re gorgeous. Time to stop sharing a flat with your best mate,  or *shudder* mother, and get out there. Become a male escort and realize the freedom of being financially independent.

The world of male escorting is becoming a more realistic, and gainful, employment opportunity. As women are becoming more empowered in the workplace, and the bedroom, there becomes a growing need for industry experts in the pleasing department. Becoming a male escort isn’t difficult- as long as you’ve got the right stuff. The right guy can expect to make well over what most would consider a comfortable salary and make their own hours and schedule. The job comes with a number of perks, that aren’t just sex. We spoke to a representative at about just what it takes to become a male escort . Think you can make the cut?


How to become a male escort

There are multiple ways to become a male escort, however the two best are going through an agency or trying your luck as an independent .


  • Agency
    • Going through an agency is the most promising route for most newbies. Going through an agency allows you to reach contacts right away through the agencies website. The right agency will vet clients for you, so you don’t have to take the time to do the sniffing around yourself, and will ensure your safety, should you get burned. Agencies also have large lists of clients and usually a great marketing campaign, so people in search of escorts already know to go through them. They also have the means to put you into contact with work peers, should you need a point of contact, or just someone who understands the business. Some agencies just host a profile, leaving you to be able to control your own clientele base. Going the agency route early on works especially well if you’re looking to become a straight male escort, as the type of woman who looks for, and can afford, a male escort doesn’t usually hit up craigslist.


  • Independent
    • If you’re looking to go the solo route, expect business to be a slow build. Becoming a male escort on your own can be really hard work, but can also be really rewarding. Creating a public profile for yourself is massively important, as well as ensuring that your web presence is perfectly on point. Ensure your personal website looks just as classy, professional, and sexy as you are. Make sure that you’re aware of the type of clients you’re looking for and the type of clients you’re suited for before you hit up the information highway. An engaging and enticing biography is a must. You only get one chance to make a first impression, and it doesn’t start when your appointment does. Consider hiring a professional photographer and a web designer/developer. The start up costs associated with being independent tend to be a bit more than those associated with going with an agency- but hey!- you gotta spend money to make money.


Who you are

Race, age, looks, ethnicity, and even background are rarely automatic disqualifiers in becoming a male escort. To become a male escort you have to be the right kind of person as a whole.


  • Charismatic
    • Yes, this absolutely is our number one. Good looking is important, but charisma is everything. If awkward silences and making people feel uncomfortable are your schtick, then we suggest sticking to your day job. A male escort needs to be a really engaging person, in many different ways. More than just being able to hold a conversation, a good male escort will know how to listen and respond appropriately, to both people and situations. Knowing how to read people and situations is paramount, not only for your client, but for you as well. Being able to tell from facial cues, body language, and vibes as to whether it’s time to get it on or get out is important for your safety and your money. Being in tune with clients and giving them exactly what they’re looking for without hassle could mean regulars. Returning customers are a great source of income, allowing you to build a trust relationship, which will make it even easier for you to provide a great experience.


  • Discreet
    • Being a great male escort isn’t just about being really good at sneaking around, it also means that you have to be discreet with your own life as well as the clients. Respecting boundaries is phenomenally important in the escorting biz. You have to know how to walk the line between gracious host and lover, and phantom stranger. Knowing what experiences your client is looking for will help, but you have to be able to indulge your clients while still keeping a professional platform. Understanding that while you and your client are being incredibly intimate, when your time is done, so are you.


  • Good Looking
    • Inside and out. Escorts don’t have to be greek gods, but you do have to be good looking. Your physical appearance is your first interview with potential clients, your inner Adonis is the second. The second interview starts from your first chat – either over email or the phone. Here, clients won’t be able to talk with you face to face, so it becomes even more important that your empathy, kindness, respect, and intuition are looking their best.  This is the point where potential clients will essentially decide if you’re exactly what they’re looking for, or if they move on to the next candidate. Take good care of your body, skin, and wardrobe, as well as your mind. Make sure that it is plainly obvious that you are as excited about spending time with clients as they are with you. Your appearance, muscle tone, posture, wardrobe, hair – everything- has to be perfect. Looking good goes so much deeper than just your face. Looking healthy and expensive will show clients that you have a great deal of respect for yourself, and subsequently, them.


  • Easy going
    • Sex can be a really touchy subject for some people. Some of your clients may need you to help them work through, or experience, complicated fantasies that they don’t feel comfortable seeking outlets for elsewhere. Most women who seek the support of escorts are extremely busy, some juggle family life as well as a corporate one. Many are used to dealing with frustrating and emotionally exhausting situations on the daily, so you have to make sure that you won’t be just another bee in their bonnet. No matter how carefully an appointment is planned, things can still go haywire. Being able to accept these little bumps in the road with class and grace will see you more clients and more money in your pocket.


  • All about the job
    • To become a male escort, you have to understand that it can be extremely difficult to juggle gigolo with personal life. Having relationships can be incredibly difficult for most people, as well as being able to be open and honest with friends and family members about what it is you do. It’s not by any means impossible, but there will definitely be people who may not really understand the services that you actually provide as a male escort. For some male escorts, the job fits perfectly into their present life. For others, it’s a great way to earn supplemental income occasionally.


What you do

To be a successful male escort, you have to be much more than just a pretty face. Becoming a male escort involves quite a bit more work than just hitting the gym and getting a mani/pedi/wax sesh in, because sometimes, it’s not just about the sex.


  • Socialize
    • Accompanying a client to work functions or specific events can be a big part of the job. You’ll need to play well with others and be able to follow the cues of your clients. Knowing how to blend in to the crowd while still being attentive and present can be one of the most harrowing pitfalls of the job. To become a male escort, you have to be memorable for your clients, and pleasantly forgettable to everyone else.


  • Be Chivalrous
    • Whether your client loves to be the sub behind bedroom doors, or is looking for something a little less racey, it’s absolutely important to be able to employ constant empathy for your clients needs and desires. Listening to them when they talk, opening doors, showing them a good time in the city, banging them while their partners watch – all clients want different experiences and it’s important to be able to give them what they’re looking for. Being a chauvinist or self-absorbed really isn’t on most clients “needs” lists. At the end of the day you have to remember that they are paying for your time and consideration.


  • Be Professional
    • Being a professional seems like a ‘duh’ statement, but it may be more intricate than you’d think. Knowing how to find out if you’re a good fit for a client is supercritical, especial after you first become a male escort. Jumping at every client just because that is what will bring home the bacon is poor form. Knowing what is on your menu and who best to serve it to is tantamount to getting, and keeping, clients. Most clients find it easier to be real with escorts, as there is less fear of judgement from people they don’t know. This comes with a huge amount of responsibility, as they are making themselves, and their most intimate desires, completely vulnerable to the escort. Never kiss and tell, even if the story seems absolutely insane. Never judge, as your clients probably have more than enough of that in their own lives. Above all know and build your brand. Don’t do anything you’re uncomfortable with because your client will be able to tell.


Oh yea, and last thing – be really good in bed. If you’re charming, kind, and really listen to your clients and their needs, that part needs no explanation and will come naturally. Congrats! You now know exactly how to become a male escort, go get ‘em champ!

Escorts in Lisbon Tell Some of Their Best Client Stories

Speak to the vast majority of escorts in Lisbon and they’ll probably tell you most of their clients and meetings in general are rather mundane. Contrary to popular belief, the average person who seeks the services of escorts isn’t a sexual deviant on the lookout for something bizarre. In fact, most are married men, business travellers and bog-standard normal people looking for a good time.

Still, working as a Lisbon escort inherently means occasionally coming across a bona-fide weirdo. Or at least, the occasional request for something even an experienced escort hasn’t encountered before. Some cross the line, while others set entirely new standards in terms of ‘are you serious’?

So for anyone under the impression their own sexual preferences and fantasies are a little on the weird side, check out the following accounts from escorts in Lisbon, detailing some of their most unexpected and memorable requests:

  1. I’ve dealt with a lot of clients with mommy issues who insist on calling me mommy at least once or twice during the meeting. But I’ve only once been with a client who for some reason wanted me to call him mommy. He actually got pretty grumpy if I called him anything else. I didn’t ask him for his reasons, I just called him mommy like he requested and he got off on it. The only problem being I can’t hear that word now without thinking of him!

2.Playing dress-up is all part of the job and I usually enjoy it. I thought I’d seen it all, but nothing could have prepared me for the guy I visited in a seriously swanky penthouse, who happened to have a Tigger costume waiting for me.As in Tigger…from the cartoon. He wanted me to put it on and bounce around the place while he jerked off. It hadn’t been arranged in advance and I do have my dignity, so I left.

  1. You’d be surprised how many guys are into spanking. Not sure where the attraction lies – I personally hate it, but I’m happy to do it anyway. Testicle slapping was something I’d never expected. One guy basically wanted me to punish the shit out of his balls for no apparent reason until tears were streaming down his face. He seemed to enjoy it, but so far that’s the only meeting I’ve ever walked out of where I felt genuinely quite guilty…poor guy!

4. If I had a dollar for every time a client has asked to pee or poop on me, I’d have precisely $5. It doesn’t happen often, but when it does, that’s the end of the session and you can forget about a refund. I always make it clear where I draw the line and if guys get carried away with what they want, they can kiss my ass goodbye. Seriously though, what’s wrong with some people? How is poop sexy? Ugh…

  1. The guys that make me laugh most are those that seem all shy and retiring, then turn into absolute freaks when things get going. I had one guy who insisted on spending the night on all fours and kept begging me to shove the heel of my shoe into his butthole. I was wearing my favourite shoes at the time and they don’t make condoms to fit stiletto heels, so he was shit out of luck! I’ll never forget that conversion – totally hilarious!
  2. Clients quite often bring photos of people they’re into – celebrities, ex-girlfriends etc. – and ask you to dress up and act like them. Which I don’t mind doing, but I like to ask for a bit of back story before I get into character…if you can call it that. I asked one guy about the girl in the photos and it turned out he had no idea who she was. He just had a thing for her. The photos had been taken without her permission through a powerful lens and he’d been spending way too much time looking in the dark and watching her in secret. That was the end of that one. Creepy.

7.I know some people are into it, but requests to see me specifically on the heaviest day of my period? That’s just about as gross as it gets. You wouldn’t believe how much money I’d been offered to let guys do things to me at the worst possible time of the month. All the money in the world couldn’t convince me to do it. Each to his own, but no chance.

  1. Pain and pleasure go hand in hand, so I’m never too surprised when clients ask me to get a little rough with them. I’m happy to go along with it, to a sensible extent at least. There was this one time when the man I met – away for business, not that that’s relevant – brought out a tub of pins and asked if I’d be kind enough to stick them in his skin. About 100 of them. For the sake of my own health and hygiene, I told him exactly where he could shove his pins. I’m fine to go along with a lot of request, but not when they involve potentially profuse bleeding.
  2. I still have no idea why silence was the thing that got him off. I walked in and he greeted me with a finger to his lips and a piece of paper demanding silence. As in total silence.Even during sex, he was adamant that even the slightest sound from me or from anything else in the room was a huge turn-off. He even got pissed-off when the bed squeaked. It was a bit like sleeping with a mime…which isn’t something I’d like to do again.

10. Ever had sex with a guy who cried like a baby from start to finish? I have…and the worst part is he came back for more! I felt too guilty to refuse a second meeting as everything apart from the sex was quite pleasant. But once again, the second we hit the springs he burst into tears and bawled his eyes out LOUDLY from start to finish. As far as turnoffs go, it turns our crying is a big one for me!